Published in Zen Breaks·2 days agoMember-onlyDecisions or Mind Traps?Our thoughts are full of fallacies — “You may go through your entire life or well into adulthood completely unaware that you are carrying around these thinking errors and mental shortcuts that influence your day-to-day thinking.” — “Escaping Ordinary (B.C Marx)” The fantastic video that I suggest today explains 11 mechanisms that condition many of our apparent…Mindtraps3 min readMindtraps3 min read
Published in Zen Breaks·Mar 21Member-onlySeated Qi Gong97 | The practice that adapts to your needs Recently I was on the phone with a friend and I remembered to suggest that she try the Qi Gong classes that I attend. She seemed very enthusiastic and willing to try it, but at the moment she can’t do it…Sitting Qi Gong Routine3 min readSitting Qi Gong Routine3 min read
Published in Zen Breaks·Mar 13Member-onlyMeditation: Minute 196 | What is your favorite way to start? Starting to meditate may seem complicated to some of us. And even for those who already practice meditation with some frequency, there are days when it’s hard to get started… For me, on those days, the hardest part are the first…How To Start Meditating2 min readHow To Start Meditating2 min read
Published in Zen Breaks·Mar 7Member-only“Beauty is really the total abandonment of the Me”95 | Krishnamurti gives us clues to find a quiet mind — When can we find the beauty in things? Do we have to look for it? Or do we have to stop looking for it? Krishnamurti gives us some clues to understand why sometimes — and not always — we manage to appreciate the beauty of a tree or a mountain. …A Quiet Mind2 min readA Quiet Mind2 min read
Published in Zen Breaks·Feb 28Member-onlyWhat Is “Good” in Your Bad Habits?94 | Investigate the good reasons for bad habits — Most people try to change a bad habit by using force, which often leads to failure and further discouragement — we feel as if we are unable to change our habits, as if they control our will. Nikolaj Boesen suggests a different and counterintuitive way I find very interesting to…Breaking A Habit3 min readBreaking A Habit3 min read
Published in Zen Breaks·Feb 21Member-only4 People = 1 Couple93 | The role of self-love in relationships — “One of the great and slightly strange dangers of falling in love with someone is how we might respond the day they start loving us back”. Oh Love, that complicated thing… When we fall in love, we desire to to be free of ourselves and just to be embraced by someone who appears to be…Self Love Courage3 min readSelf Love Courage3 min read
Published in Zen Breaks·Feb 14Member-only“Take 5 Breathing” Technique92 | A quick way to calm down in 2 minutes — I recently discovered this Rachel Richards video in which she discusses a really practical and easy approach to relax. When we begin to feel hurried or anxious, we can apply it in just 2 minutes. This approach (dubbed “Take 5 Breathing”) combines breathing exercises with a physical component — tracing your…Breathing Technique2 min readBreathing Technique2 min read
Published in Zen Breaks·Feb 7Member-onlyI See Myself, Looking at The Moon91 | Watching the Moon, I find myself Watching the moon Just watching the moon Watching your light Your perfect shape ~ The way you light up the sky The way you allow us to see the space that surrounds you ~ The space offered to us As an invitation to rest ~ …Watching The Moon2 min readWatching The Moon2 min read
Published in Zen Breaks·Jan 31Member-only90| Thank You, 10,000 TimesI am grateful for this feeling of joy — Yesterday, I reached 10,000 followers here on Medium and I wanted to thank you all for that. When I started writing on this platform about Mindfulness and self-knowledge, I did it as a form of self-discipline and also with the hope of eventually helping someone through the ideas and resources…Medium Followers2 min readMedium Followers2 min read
Published in Zen Breaks·Jan 24Member-only89| “Are You Happy?”How does it feel to be happy? — A few days ago, in a talk with a friend, she reminded me of a conversation we had about 20 years ago about Happiness. At the time she asked me, “Are you happy?”, and she was very surprised by my answer, “I don’t know.” Happiness, long time ago To her, my answer was somewhat…What Is Happiness3 min readWhat Is Happiness3 min read